The Power of 'No.' - Setting boundaries.

There is a liberating feeling when one first says 'No'. Either as a parent, or a spouse, an employee or an employer.

I don't mean to be negative. Far from it. However, learning when to say 'No' is every bit as important as knowing when to say 'Yes.' It's also very liberating.

At first it may seem mean or unfair. However, there can be no fairness if the answer is always 'Yes.' Setting clear and reasonable boundaries includes knowing when things are outside of acceptable parameters. Subsequently it allows one to be reasonable and require actions within prescribed limits.

Reward without sacrifice is a dangerous thing. Guarding that truth is sacred.